Recently, while lecturing (on Zoom) about the need to balance the sacred feminine with the sacred masculine, a man asked me: “How do you recommend men entertain more the divine feminine?”
It is a good question.
I offered one answer yesterday in my sharing on Francis of Assisi because he truly stands out as a man who had an amazing balance of the feminine and the masculine. It is so much in evidence in his poem on Brother Sun as I indicated in the video where I read much of the poem. He found the divine feminine (but also the masculine) in nature.
So that is one answer: Check nature out. And look for its feminine aspects—which are everywhere.
It is important to put our hunting-gathering instincts into answering that question, for a patriarchal culture has so flooded us with the uber masculine that we can find, in such a fog, neither the healthy masculine nor the feminine.
This is where praying the feminine names for divinity such as we have been meditating on for weeks becomes a meaningful—and important—exercise.
Such a practice brings the feminine back to one’s own consciousness.
So too is realizing our own mysticism. Mysticism itself is feminine, as Dorothee Soelle described it. Mysticism “comes closest to overcoming the hierarchical masculine concept of God….The mystical certainty that nothing can separate us from the love of God grows when we ourselves become one with love by placing ourselves, freely and without guarantee of success, on the side of love.”
The male mystics are very good at this (as are women mystics)